When a child is ill, parents and siblings change:
- we listen
- we want to understand
- we have empathy
- we are present
- we deeply care about their needs
- they become the center of our attention
- we hold back with criticism
- we ask questions
- we feel love
- we care deeply about their wellbeing and happily fulfill their needs
- we get creative and come up with new ideas
- we fall out of our routine
- WE CONNECT
These are all innate qualities every human being is born with. We don’t have to learn them.
We all thrive on them and deeply cherish the receiving.
Why do we need to get ill to receive such fabulous human gifts?
Why do we hold back with sharing our innate humanness when things go well?
What is the secret that brings forth these amazing qualities?
The answer is very simple: CONNECTION!
When your child is sick you connect with them in real time! This connection works the magic; it is the most important ingredient for our wellbeing in life we all crave for.
Do you want to experiment with this and see how connecting works so beautifully through you?
For one week, for no special reason, sharing here and there some extra attention with someone you care about:
your child, your spouse, a co-worker, your boss, your sibling …